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The sweater weather without the cold and rain made this Halloween very pleasant. FG’s costume was a hit once people realized who she was ~ she dressed as Wednesday from the Addams Family It worked out well since Halloween was on a Wednesday this year. At one house, a visiting grandma kept asking FG why her doll had no head. I could tell the woman was getting stressed thinking some strange child decapitated her doll. I finally stepped in and explained. Once I mentioned the Addams Family, I saw visible relief on the woman’s face. What I really wanted to say was “Lighten up, it’s Halloween!”

All our neighbors, including us, set up on our porches awaiting the onslaught of children which never came. We live on a newly built street so I’m guessing a lot of parents didn’t know we were here. We had about 50-75 kids come through but I’d expected more like 300. By the end of the allotted “trick or treat” time, I was giving away large handfuls of candy so as not to have any leftovers. Last thing I need is the temptation of chocolate.

FG brought home more than enough to give a dentist nightmares…

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“Before You Were Born” Old

FG came home from school last week and starting telling me about a historic event which took place a long time ago. When I asked when the event took place, she replied with “Oh, it’s ‘before you were born’ old~ like in the 50’s.”

I asked what is older than “before I was born” and she said “Well, that would be “Before Grandma Betty was born old.”

I have to admit, she must get it from me because I used to be just as obnoxious about “old” people when I was her age ~ and by old, I mean anyone over 20 was ancient to me 🙂

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Delicate Ears

All these years, since FG was born, I’ve attempted to protect her from obscene language, TV, movies, etc. I’ve had no problem “requesting” someone stop swearing if we were in the near vicinity. The worst incident was on an early morning train from Munich to Weiden during Oktoberfest and FG (age 5) & I were seated next to 5-6 soldiers coming back from an all-nighter of festivities. Seemed every sentence started with F***. I politely asked them to control their language, to which they truly made an attempt but it was so second nature that one of the guys finally said “Why don’t we just sleep since we can’t control what we say.”  That made me chuckle.

In the last year, I’ve given up “protecting” her from foul language and now I attempt to explain why people use that type of language and why she’s not allowed to say those words.

FG is also not allowed to watch PG-13 movies yet. She doesn’t ask to watch them either, she’s very happy with the feel-good “G” or “PG” movies. Imagine my surprise when, during introductions, several of my 4th grade (9-10 year olds) religious education class students named movies like “Ghost Rider” as their favorite movie. I haven’t seen the movie but the previews looked disturbing to me. And then my neighbor shocked me even more when she said her 5 year old has seen all the Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter movies. WOW ~ I had trouble with some of the scenes in the Rings series. Remember the scary spider ~ creepy.

Since FG is inching toward those PG -13 movies, I was thrilled to see this on a blog called Books on the Brain which I recently started reading. Commonsensemedia.org seems like a great resource for parents who aren’t sure if their child can handle a certain movie

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Into a Good Groove…

Being in a rut is a “bad” word around our home. There’s a fine line between being in a comfortable routine and being in a rut. Thankfully, since I’ve never lived in one place for more than five years in my entire life, it’s safe to say I don’t usually get into a rut. In fact, FG and I have the opposite problem, we usually crave a good routine. I leave FM out of this equation because I honestly think he could do things differently every day and be his happiest.  His routine comes in the form of products ~ he doesn’t like it when I change out his favorite mustard or change the type of dishsoap we use.

Since FG is forced to live our “wandering the earth” lifestyle, I try very hard to quickly establish a routine once we settle into a new home. Like most children, she LOVES the security of a schedule. We’re not quite there yet but FG is getting into a good groove here in NY. She’s started after-school activities such as ice skating, hip-hop dancing and basketball. She enjoys our weekly Saturday visit to the farmers market which I had to warn her will be coming to an end after this month. We’ll have to find a new Saturday morning outing.

As for me, my morning routine is going well but I’ve yet to find a walking partner (makes me miss Jean, my Guam walker, even more). Unfortunately, after the morning, it’s a catch-all of things ~ mostly “thinking” about what still needs to be done to settle in and not a whole lot of “doing.” Bottom line: no curtains yet! We’ll continue to work on our routines, and force FM to come along, so that we can save energy to enjoy the two weekends of traveling coming up this month.  

Are you in a rut or trying to find stability?! Or better yet, are you just right?!

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Apple Addiction

A couple weeks ago, the man selling apples at the Farmers’ Market offered FG a “taste” of a freshly picked cortland apple and from that bite, she’s been hooked. She looked at the bowl of apples on the counter yesterday and saw only three apples left. She got a bit of a twitch and said “Mommy, there’s not enough apples to last until Saturday.”

She’s always liked sliced apples with peanut butter or nutella but now she grabs one from the bowl and munches away without anything to hide the taste. The apple selection here in upstate New York is fabulous ~ rows and rows of different types in the grocery stores.  I know very little about apples so I’ve now got a chart I take with me. FG’s favorites are: Cortland, Fuji, Golden Delicious and Granny Smith.

Personally, I prefer mangoes, papayas, guavas…almost anything over an apple. In fact, I’ve always thought of apples as a bit tasteless and boring but that’s probably because by the time it’s shipped to Hawaii, the apple has lost its flavor. But after reading an article in the October 2007 issue of Good Housekeeping, I may have to give them another try.

Here are the top five reasons to eat an apple a day:

1) They are PACKED with fiber (20 percent of your daily value). They take awhile to eat so your body registers that it’s full before you’re tempted to eat more food. The natural sweetener of an apple enters your body slowly so you get steady blood sugar levels.
2) Researchers from the UK found the children of women who ate the most apples while pregnant were less likely to develop lung problems (wheezing, asthma, etc). For adults, the reseach suggests apples may lower asthma and lung cancer.
3) The pectin (a type of fiber) and polyphenols (antioxidants) can lower cholesterol levels(especially LDL levels). Important note: eat the skin, it has 2-6 times the antioxidant compounds as the fleshy part.
4) Italian researchers found that eating apples lowered risks for certain cancers such as oral, esophageal, colon, breast, ovarian and prostate.
5) Apples heighten the production of acetylcholine which is a chemical that transmits messages between nerve cells thus keeping your brain sharp as you age. University of Mass in Lowell is doing animal studies on the effects of apples on Alzheimer’s disease.

For me, the thought of an apple keeping my brain in good working order is enough to convince me to bite into an apple a day but I think I’ll go with the baked tasty version such as this.

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First Day of School

These first days of school seem to be coming faster and faster for me but, but this year in particular, it couldn’t come fast enough for FG. She was more than ready to get back with kids her own age. So far, so good…she really likes her class, likes the teacher and even the lunch menu is much more “veggie” friendly for her. In Guam, it was all meats on the menu.

The school day is long here ~ 8.5 hours including the bus ride to and from school. The first couple of days were a little tiring but she seems to be adjusting to it. I really miss her while she’s away at school and suggested maybe I should homeschool her but she’s having none of that …

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Thanks! Grandma Betty

When we registered FG for school, she had to take a series of tests which is given to all new students. I hadn’t been warned about the test or the length of time it would take. After an hour and a half of waiting around, I was getting a little worried that there was something wrong ~ did she somehow forget how to mulitple/divide over the summer? BUT, on the contrary, the counselor came out and told me that FG did fabulous on both the reading and math tests but especially on the math test.

So, Grandma Betty decided to send her a congratulations balloon, with a bear, bouquet ~ FG was so shocked when the delivery man came to the door. As was I since it was a lot of balloons.

A bonus was it added a lot of color to our otherwise barren house.

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First Ride in First Class

Upgraded to first class

FM got an upgrade from Pohnpei to Kosrae and gave his seat to FG. It was only an hour flight and we were in the bulk head seats right behind her so we felt OK with her alone.

Problem is, she now knows the difference between steerage and business class 😉

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School’s out for summer…

Awards ceremony

School’s out and FG ready for her leisure time. My question is when is it not leisure time here? FG did well in school and received the “Academic Achievement” award. Her teacher selected one boy and one girl for the award.

FG’s been lucky as far as teachers ~ last year she had a super 2nd grade teacher and this year her teacher was just as enthusiastic about the kids learning. When I hear other people complain about their child’s teacher, I’m thankful for her teachers.

Hopefully I can say the same thing next year for 4th grade.

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A Few Firsts

FG had a couple of firsts last week.

She entered her first science fair at her elementary school and INSISTED on doing all the work herself. She came up with her own hypothesis which was “does coffee grounds or tea leaves make a plant grow faster?”  She gathered the data over a three week period and entered all the information into power point. I did help with spell check and gluing the paperwork onto the presentation boards. She didn’t win overall for the 3rd grade but she got 1st place out of those who entered from her class.  Conclusion: Coffee grounds (1 tablespoon per day) were best in helping make a plant grow.

We’re very proud of her persistence and the fact she did it all herself.

The other “first” for the week was a game of Monopoly. She did a great job of strategizing with her properties and when to buy houses and hotels.  It’d been so long since I played monopoly, and have to admit, I had to look up a couple of the rules a few times.  

I have a feeling we’ll be playing a lot more monopoly and other games when we’re snowbound next winter!

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